Thursday, December 19, 2013

Guest Post: Maybe Next Year by Paul Warhit

I spent last week with 5,000 Jews at the URJ biennial in San Diego, California and I came away with 2 observations.  The first observation is that nobody in his right mind would return to New York in December after spending 4 days in sunny San Diego.  Yet here I am back in New York.

The second observation is that while I am extremely comfortable being a Jew in Westchester in 2013, that comfort level reaches new heights when I am surrounded by thousands of other Jews all learning, singing, eating, and praying together.  As vibrant as our Westchester Jewish community is, we are still a minority population.  It is incredibly empowering when 5,000 Jews take over a convention center and become the majority for a few days.  It's nice to know that wherever you look, you'll see YOUR people.

Of course, that euphoria quickly dissipated as soon as the cab dropped me off at the airport Sunday morning and I became part of a religious minority once again.  It's not like I was discriminated against or anyone looked at me funny.  It was just that I was no longer surrounded by MY people and that absolutely changed things for me.  I had lost that confidence; that swagger that I had back in San Diego.  Coincidentally, when I landed at JFK airport and left my gate, I passed a gate with a group of passengers on line to board a flight to Tel Aviv on El Al.  I thought to myself, "My bags are already packed.  I could be in Eretz Yisrael in a mere 12 hours.  I could be surrounded by millions of MY people and soak in the feeling that I longed for."  I actually stopped walking and thought about it for a moment.  Then reality hit and I continued walking toward the exit.

I love living in Westchester with all our wonderful neighbors.  I appreciate the ethnic and religious diversity our community offers.  At the same time, I do enjoy being surrounded by MY people.  Maybe one day.  Maybe next year in Jerusalem.

Friday, November 22, 2013

Guest Post: Breaking Bread and Breaking Down Barriers by Paul Warhit

I just returned home from the Thanksgiving Diversity Breakfast at Manhattanville College, sponsored by the American Jewish Committee (AJC), the Duchesne Center, and the Westchester Jewish Council in addition to an impressive list of community partners.  They were the most enjoyable three hours I've spent in a long time.  We started by enjoying a delicious breakfast while giving honor to 3 deserving recipients for their efforts in promoting diversity throughout Westchester County.  That was followed by scintillating conversations with my tablemates discussing what each of us is doing to improve relations among different racial/ethnic/religious groups in our community and how we can collaborate to do even more.  The best part of this discussion is that it took place with people I did not know who looked and prayed differently than I do.  And that is a VERY GOOD thing.

The program's theme was "Building the Mosaic" and the event did just that.  Benzinger Hall was filled with 300 people of all colors, religions, nationalities, and sizes with three objectives in mind. 

#1- To greet each other and enjoy our company.
#2- To celebrate the level of success we've achieved in the area of diversity in Westchester County.
#3- To acknowledge that there is still much work to do and to discuss ways to cooperate to make sure no individual or group is left out of our welcoming community.

I left the Diversity Breakfast energized and thankful.  I was energized by the level of mutual respect and commitment to improve on a community that cherishes our diversity.  We acknowledge our differences and embrace the beauty that each of our communities brings to the larger table.  And I was thankful that Ilissa and I are able to raise our three children in an environment where people of all backgrounds treat each other with respect and recognize that we are all created in God's image and are deserving of each other's appreciation.

The message shared by those in attendance was a simple one, but one that can never be repeated enough.  Now it is time to return to the good work that we've begun.

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Guest Post: Zero Tolerance by Paul Warhit

We tell our children that they should neither bully others nor allow themselves to be bullied. We hold instructive classes teaching our children how bullying is a destructive practice that can only lead to bad things. In extreme instances, children and young adults end up taking their own lives after relentless bullying either in person or via the internet pushes them beyond the limits of rational thought.

The news of Miami Dolphins' offensive lineman, Richie Incognito, bullying teammate Jonathan Martin should come as no shock. While it is true that neither Richie nor Jonathan are in middle school or high school, serious bullying behavior was going on to the point that Martin had to distance himself from Incognito by leaving the team and missing last Sunday's game against the Cincinnati Bengals.

I'm not surprised that this bullying went on between grown adults. I'd bet that to varying degrees, bullying behavior goes on in workplace environments more than we'd like to believe. What I'm surprised about is that Martin's teammates did nothing to stop the bullying. It is almost impossible to miss the signs of bullying in a close-knit environment like a team locker room. Whether Martin's teammates decided not to step in to defend him against Incognito or if they actively participated in the bullying, they must be held responsible for the torment Martin went through.

We teach our children to stand up to injustices and help those in need. We insist that the weak among us are protected against predators and that bullies are brought to justice. The Miami Dolphins organizations and Jonathan Martin's teammates let him down in an extremely profound manner. By not watching out for Jonathan Martin's back, they allowed Richie Incognito to prey on an emotionally weaker individual and failed to embrace their teammate and do the right thing. I am relieved that Jonathan decided to go public instead of dealing with his personal anguish privately and possibly hurting himself.

The Westchester Jewish Council is proud to take a "zero tolerance" position when it comes to bullying. Jewish tradition teaches us that it is our responsibility to care for the stranger among us and to protect the weak. This incident in the Miami Dolphins locker room should serve as an example of what not to do. We should take this opportunity to sit with our children and make sure they understand that there is no place for bullying in a civilized society and that we expect them to speak up when they witness this behavior among their peers. Our children should view Jonathan Martin as the victim and a hero for speaking up. They should view Richie Incognito as the bully and thug that he is. It should be Richie Incognito and the bullies like him who are ostracized from our society.

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Responses to the Pew Report: A Portrait of American Jews

To read the Pew Report "A Portrait of American Jews" click here.

Responses to the Pew Report are below.  This list is not comprehensive nor in any particular author.  The views expressed in each article are those of its author and do not represent the views of the Westchester Jewish Council.

From the New York Times:  Poll Show Major Shift in Identity of U.S. Jews

From HaymHerring.com:  Beware as the Spin Begins:  Early Headlines on the Pew American Jewish Population Study

From Rabbis Without Borders via MyJewishLearning.com:  A New Spiritual Comfort Zone:  Reflecting on the Pew Study

From Ha'Aretz:  Reengaging American Jews, Before They Drift Away

From Religion New Service:  Winners and Losers in the Pew Research Poll on American Jews

From The Washington Post:  8 Fascinating Trends in How American Jews Think about Israel

From The Times of Israel:  Rise of 'Jews of No Religion' Most Significant Find of Pew Study, Director Says

From The Forward:  Jews Express Wide Criticism of Israel in Pew Survey but Leaders Dismiss Findings

From Commentary Magazine:  American Jews:  Laughing but Shrinking




Tuesday, September 17, 2013

2013 Day of Chesed

Westchester Jewish Council Board Members and staff were among those in attendance at the Jewish Community Center of Mid-Westchester on Sunday, September 15th, participating in the annual Day of Chesed.

WJC President Paul Warhit
with Board Member Harriet Zeller
Stuart Kolbert (pictured, below) remarked, "The Day of Chesed once again shows the Jewish community at work, helping and assisting the general community in anyway we can. The young participants are learning the importance of helping those less fortunate. As Jews we continue responding to world crisis. Why don't we get better press?"

WJC Board Member Stuart Kolbert
with Executive Director Elliot Forchheimer
Harriet (Gigi) Zeller (pictured, right) said, "An incredible day of Tikun Olam...it was heartwarming to see so many attendees of all ages working together for the benefit of so many here and abroad."

WJC Board Member Mark Reisman said, "I was moved to be in the presence of so many people of all ages
and backgrounds enthusiastically taking part in the Mid-Westchester JCC's Day of Chesed. Coming on the heels of Yom Kippur and springing from the ashes of horrific national tragedy, the Day of Chesed helped me translate contemplation and sadness into inspiration and positive action. Yasher Koach to all who sponsored and participated in this terrific day!"

"Once again this year the Jewish Community Center of Mid-Westchester became the center of our community's expression of volunteerism in commemoration of 9/11," added WJC Executive Director Elliot Forchheimer.  "Thank you, JCC!"



Thursday, September 12, 2013

Did You Know?

This fascinating article from Tablet Magazine details the story behind NBC's historic 1943 Yom Kippur radio broadcast - and gives us a behind-the-scenes look at AJC's past.

Monday, August 26, 2013

Guest Post: Reflections on the Young Israel of Scarsdale’s Heritage Mission to Poland by Beverly Rosenbaum

We began reading the fifth book of the Torah, Devarim, a few weeks ago and will be reading from it through the holidays that begin in just a few weeks.  In Devarim, the people of Israel have just completed their 40 years of sojourning in the wilderness after leaving Egypt.  They stand on the threshold of entering Israel, on the verge of achieving their dreams and beginning a bright future in the promised land.  But Devarim begins with Moses painstakingly reviewing and retelling the people all the events of the last 40 years.  This is a new generation of people who are entering Israel and in order for them to benefit the most from what their future there holds, they must understand the past.

As Jews, we all know and understand the importance of our past and the imperative of “zachor”- of remembering.  I just returned from my synagogue’s, Young Israel of Scarsdale’s, Heritage Mission to Poland two weeks ago, and the imperative of remembering has never been as clear for me.  I am still decompressing from this very difficult but incredibly important and meaningful experience.

Young Israel of Scarsdale Heritage Mission to Poland
Thirty-six of us (pictured, right) went on this mission led by our rabbi, Rabbi Jonathan Morgenstern, and a fabulous historian and scholar, David Bernstein, the Dean of Pardes Institute in Jerusalem, organized and coordinated by Michael Berl, the Director of Heritage Seminars based in Jerusalem. I was a co-chair of the mission with my friend and fellow synagogue member, Arlene Smith, and we had actually started planning the mission more than six years ago with Rabbi Morgenstern’s predecessor, the Young Israel of Scarsdale’s beloved rabbi, Rabbi Jacob Rubenstein, z”l, who had been born in a DP camp, and who died so tragically together with his wife Debbie in a house fire a week before Passover five years ago when his house was struck by lightning. We were planning to do this mission that summer but shelved it for obvious reasons and decided to do it this summer in honor of the Rabbi and Debbie’s fifth Yahrzeit.  It was a very special trip for all of us.

For me, the trip was also very personal.  My mother was a survivor of the Shoah who was in eight or more different concentration camps over a four year period and lost her entire family during the war.  I had felt a need to do this trip for a very long time in order to honor the memory of my grandparents, and aunt and uncle whom I never knew.
Synagogue in Tykocin
Lupachowa
We spent a week in Poland, visiting both the sites of the rich and wonderful Jewish life that had flourished in Poland for more than 900 years, as well as the sites of the horrific brutalization and destruction of the Jews in the Shoah.  As one example, we went one morning to the town of Tykocin, that had been a typical shtetl, located about two hours from Warsaw.  We first visited the beautiful baroque style synagogue (pictured, left) that had been built there in 1642 and has many of our prayers painted on the walls since the synagogue was built before prayerbooks were being used.  We walked from the synagogue to the town square just a couple of blocks away. On August 25, 1941, all 2,000 Jews of Tikocyn were assembled by the Nazis on the town square, women and children on one side, men on the other.  The women and children were put on trucks and the men followed by foot, forced to sing the Hatikvah as they marched. They arrived at the Lupachowa forest to which we then drove, just a few miles away, where three pits had been dug and all two thousand Jews were shot to death and thrown into those pits (pictured, leftt).  Hundreds of years of thriving Jewish life in this shtetl were destroyed in a matter of hours. And this is just one example of many.  Today, 250 members of the IDF travel to Poland and visit Lupachowa each month - they sing the Hatikvah and say the memorial prayer there to ensure that these precious souls will always be remembered.

We, of course, went to concentration camps as well – to Treblinka, Majdanek and Auschwitz.  As much as you read, see on TV or in the movies, and for me – as much as I heard from my mother, nothing can prepare you to see firsthand the scope and enormity both of the richness of Jewish life that had been and of its destruction.  Of the six million Jews killed in the Shoah, three million were Polish Jews.  We learned the chilling statistic that at the beginning of 1942, 80% of Polish Jewry was still alive and 20% had perished – one year later, by the beginning of 1943, the reverse was true and 80% of Polish Jewry had been decimated.

Auschwitz
Davening at Auschwitz on Tisha B'Av
We spent the last day of our trip which was Tisha B’av at Auschwitz (pictured, right) and Birkenau and for as many times as I’ve seen pictures of the gate with the writing “Arbeit Macht Frei,” when I was actually standing there, walking through that gate, and standing on the rail tracks leading into Birkenau, I was beyond overwhelmed at the enormity of it.  There are simply no words to adequately describe the vastness of this horrific place of evil.  And we were there on a beautiful summer day when the sun was shining and we were walking on the green grass seeing the beautiful trees all around us and felt physically sickened by the contrast between nature’s beauty and this monstrous place of hell, thinking about what these trees must have witnessed.

I am back now for just two weeks and am still processing everything I saw and experienced. The trip had a profound impact on all of us and for me, I view it as one of the most important things I’ve ever done.

Thinking back, there were many difficult aspects of this trip but one of the most painful for me was to see the extent of the degradation and humiliation to which the Jews were subjected and their total helplessness and powerlessness.  This is difficult for us to fathom since we are lucky enough to live in a time when we are not powerless, when we can be and are activists who have loud voices and can use our voices.  And, thank G-d, we now have a state of Israel where no one will ever again be able to control our destiny.  My husband and I were lucky enough to go to Israel after the mission and for as many times as we have gone there in the past, this tiny country never felt more precious. If Poland represents the incomprehensible pain of our past, Israel represents the beauty and richness of our future.

Making an Israel connection at Auschwitz
I began by speaking about the importance of looking back and understanding our past in order to have a more meaningful future.  Just as Moses spoke about the past to the new generation as they were about to begin the next phase of their lives entering Israel, we are the new generation after the Shoah and are the legacy and continuation of the six million Jews who perished in the Shoah.  It is up to us to ensure that they will never be forgotten as we move forward working to ensure the safety of Israel and of American and world Jewry.

We are just beginning the Hebrew month of Elul as we prepare to celebrate the New Year in just a few weeks.  This is a time of promise and of hope for the year ahead, but it is also a time of reflection looking back at the past year.  As I said when I began, we are a people who know and understand the importance of remembering and embracing our past in order to have a rich and meaningful present and future.

Shana Tova U’Metukah!

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Originally presented by Westchester Jewish Council Board Member Beverly Rosenbaum at the 2013 summer board meeting.

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Jewish Teens Go "Clubbing" in Westchester

Interesting article from The Jewish Week about options for Jewish teens - and several of our member organizations are mentioned - along with the Westchester Jewish Teen Learning Initiative!

Sunday, August 11, 2013

A New Crop of Yiddush Speakers


Not far from Westchester County, in nearby Goshen, NY, yiddish is flourishing on the farm.  Read more in this article from Gothamist.com.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

More than Falafel...Israeli Chefs Make Their Presence Known in the United States


Hungry?  You will be after reading this article from Tablet Magazine about Israeli chefs influencing Middle Eastern cuisine in the United States!

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Introducing Westchester Jewish Council's new Assistant Executive Director, Pam Goldstein!


In April the Westchester Jewish Council made a smooth transition as we said a fond L'Hitra'ot (until we see you again) to Nancy Zaro and welcomed the newest member of our team, Pam Goldstein.

Pam, a Hartsdale resident since 1993, comes to the Council from Solomon Schechter School of Westchester, where she was the Co-President of the Parent-Teacher Organization from 2010 to 2012.  With her husband, Eric, she is the parent to three children, Melissa (Schechter '11), Jordan (Schecther '15), and Julia (Schechter '19).

Since joining the Council this Spring, Pam has been busy getting to know professional and lay staff at our member organizations and our partners throughout the County.  Most recently, she worked with WJC Board Member Gary Trachten and Musical Director Kenny Green to coordinate the Westchester Jewish Music & Arts Festival which, by all accounts, was a rousing success!

Pam is looking forward to fall as we begin our program year with the Jewish History & Heritage Month Celebration (hosted by the Westchester County Board of Legislators on Monday, September 23rd - mark your calendars!).

If you haven't had the chance to meet Pam yet, please feel free to drop her an email or give her a call at (914) 328-7001.  She'd love to get to know you!

Sunday, July 28, 2013

Westchester Jewish Music & Arts Festival

Despite bad weather in surrounding towns, we had a beautiful afternoon at Kensico Dam Plaza for today's Westchester Jewish Music & Arts Festival!

Here are a few photos from today's festivities, courtesy of the Journal-News.  More photos and a complete write up of the event will be available later this week.

Thursday, July 25, 2013

School and Workplace Accommodations for the Jewish High Holidays

Thanks to ADL for this timely resource detailing school and workplace accommodations for the Jewish High Holidays.

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Who Loves You?

We're planning a fabulous evening of fun!  Here's a sneak peek at "Who Loves You?" - A Musical Tribute to Frankie Falli & The Four Seasons, our musical guests at the 37th Anniversary Gala honoring outgoing WJC President Ron Burton on Saturday, February 2nd.

Register now online!